What "alive" actually means
A proxy is alive here if a full request completes through it to the chosen target and returns a usable response. That is a stricter test than a TCP connect, which is what most checkers measure — a socket that opens and then hangs on the first byte will pass a connect test and fail every real job. Latency is measured from connect to first byte, so it includes the exit's own handshake, not just the round trip to it.